Considering Job Offers

Deciding between job offers involves a number of determining factors like your commute/location, pay, benefits, and fit. Typically, considering these factors will help you commit to a job. But if you’re still debating, try to identify what’s preventing you from deciding.

If you’re afraid to commit because something better might come along, your choices are simple:

  • Figure out what would make this option “better.” If that thing(s) is something you’ll realistically receive from another offer, you may want to turn this one down and seek that factor(s) elsewhere. If you haven’t negotiated on that factor or clarified it with the employer, go back and do so.
  • If it’s unrealistic to think another offer will give you that thing(s), you may just be dealing with a fear of commitment. Remember, accepting a job does not lock you in for life. If you want to make a change later, you can. It may be that at this time this is the right position for you, but in the future another position may be more appropriate.
  • Trust your gut. If your instincts are telling you that something is wrong, and you’ve done everything you can to determine what is wrong about them but haven’t, trust in yourself.

If you are a low risk-taker, declining an offer when you don’t have another offer or job lined up may feel overwhelming. If you decide to decline an offer, trust that if you were offered one position, others will follow.

In any case, once you make a decision, don’t second guess yourself. You’ll never know if the path not chosen would have been better. Some days it may appear that way, but the reality is that unless you are in the circumstances day-in and day-out, you’ll never know. If you find yourself frequently thinking the about the road not taken, it may be time to consider a new role.

Factors to Consider